The Red Flag Is Me is a 140-day devotional designed to guide you through the power of honest self-reflection—without falling into the trap of self-sabotage. Through real-life stories, biblical truths, and thoughtful prompts, Destiny Wesley shares how daily surrender can lead to healing, growth, and a renewed relationship with God and self. This devotional isn't about perfection; it's about progress, grace, and allowing God to transform your "red flags" into testimonies. Whether you're just starting your healing journey or looking to deepen your spiritual walk, this book is your companion for the days when conviction meets compassion.
“I don’t belong here,” was all I could say
When the voice of God started cutting through the noise in my life, it wasn’t during a sermon or a conference — it was in the middle of designing, driving through traffic, in the everyday places where I thought I was in control. He spoke to me through visuals, through real life, because that’s the language I understood.
Mid-sex — yes, mid-sin because it was outside of marriage — the love of God pierced straight through my heart. Suddenly weeping; I could barely speak, but what soon came out was, “I don’t belong here.” From that moment, I’ve been devoted to Jesus. But even greater than that, He’s always been devoted to you and I — to our devotion to Him.
The Red Flag Is Me is not just a devotional. It's an encounter.
Whether you have big ears to hear or little ears, whether you walk strong in faith or are just curious, I believe He will meet you right where you are. Expect to walk away seeing yourself, God, and His creation differently — showing up bolder, freer, and more courageous, no matter what.